Wednesday, 13 June 2012

Make Do And Mend- DRAFT

This is the first draft of a short part of the opening chapter to a novel I would like to write (one day!) The book is about my great-grandmother Winifred who was one of the last people in Britain to be given a front-lobal lobotomy for mental health reasons that will become clearer as the novel progresses. I hope the novel will deal with the stigma of mental health issues for women in the 1950s, along with the impact these issues had on their families and the roles of wives and mothers within them. A fair amount of feminist writing and criticism has looked at the role of the American housewife, but as yet I haven't found much on post-war Britain, (any pointers for materials gratefully received!) Plan is at the moment to present it from the points of view of Winifred, her husband Alf, her daughter June (my grandmother), and Nin (my mother). Win had an extraordinary life from birth to death, and I want her story to be told.


It was a clear day with a light breeze when Win had to go to the hospital. She was surprised that she had been able to hang the washing out on the line in the garden that morning without wondering if when Alf got back they would be covered in soot from the smog. One last wring of the sheets through the mangle, feeling its cold rivets on her soap roughened hands as she pumped the handle. There was always more water that came out than you thought. It was always clear. Never soapy when Win did it, oh no, not like some of them that left the sheets still half-flecked with grime so the water was grey and foamy as it dripped down the sides onto the tarmac in the yard, making its way to the drain which gurgled in gratitude. No amount of Atrixo seemed to soften her hands, not even applied six, no seven times, letting the cream seep into the skin until she felt the familiar chalky residue once it had done its work, supposedly softening her skin to that of a baby's. Not even parafin filled gloves worn in bed would do the trick for Win's reddened fingers, cuticles seeping. And Alf didn't like that, if those gloves touched him in the night. She knew if they touched his face it reminded him of the days in the cellar, wearing gas masks made of the same warm-smelling rubber, filtering the air and protecting them against poisons. She'd hated those masks, feeling and smelling her own breath come back to her, magnified, concentrated, and sometimes she's hyperventilated so much she had to take it off and breathe into a paper bag.

There were birds in the sky, tweeting like a dawn chorus. To her they seemed too loud, too much. Birds were always happy, cooing, huddling, singing, not afraid of the night coming or then the morning coming after that. They sometimes made a mess on the washing and she had to clean it again. But twice this time. She'd have to fill the metal tub in the yard from the kettle on the range, boiling and boiling the water til the kitchen filled with wet smoke that seemed to settle on her skin. Pleasant at first, then maddening, clinging to the hairs, giving her a chill. Only way to stop that was to shave them. No hairs on her arms and that wet feeling would never have to be felt. Arms that were covered in small scars from previous scalds with boiling kettles. Sometimes she liked it when she scalded herself, the burning sensation a visceral reminder of her toil, her commitment. She could almost feel her skin sizzling in the heat. Then she could sink her arms into the tub filled with soap flakes and lather and scrub and lather and scrub and lather and scrub and lather and scrub against the board as hard as she wanted, smiling to herself knowing only she would know the extent of her sacrifice.

Even when the stain wasn't there any more the filth clung to it. So she'd have to do it all again. Boiling, soaping, lathering, scrubbing, so the condensation beaded on her brow until she could stand it no more and wiped it with her tea towel. That tea towel was hers, no one else could use it. No one could touch it. It was the only one that she could use on her skin as she boiled and starched it every night, safe in the knowledge it would be clean for the morning. On winter's days she sometimes came down the stairs early enough to see the last dregs of the dawn to make the cup of tea and it would still be wet. So in the winter she bought a second tea towel and she came to boiling one tea towel one night, then two the next so there'd always be one that was dry to use. Couldn't use a wet tea towel to wipe a wet face. It was the water in the trenches that caused her brother's trench foot and the gangrene in his leg. Just the water, being stood in it day in, day out. Soapy water scalding hot was different, but cold wet water was a breeding ground for all those diseases that killed people when Win's mum was young, the ravages of cholera taking their toll on a quarter of London, like a modern day plague. One good thing about the war, the Nazis bombing those terrible slums in East London where families lived like rats and rats lived like families.

She pegged the whitened washing on the line- not like the neighbours she disliked who put the pegs fully in their mouths, smoking a cigarette at the same time. This was a good little street with houses built just after the war, brand new when they moved in with a full range, a Belling oven and hob. At least the Jewesses tied their hair up and they always kept their children clean and well behaved. Win'd heard that they had two of everything- cups, bowls, plates, knives, forks, spoons, saucepans, frying pans. She'd always known that Jews should seperate meat and milk but no one she knew had actually done it, apart from these refugees from Germany, now settled in their little community. She had loved it when she walked down to the market and saw the men with their caps on and their curly hair, tendrils bouncing around their ears, all gutteral voices and wild hand gestures. So different from the men she'd grown up with. She was sad if she had to go out on a Saturday when they were all indoors, doing nothing. She'd often imagined how hard it must be to not be able to listen to the wireless or draw or read but now, yes now, she understood. She had wanted more than anything to have two sets of everything- cups, bowls, plates, knives, forks, spoons, saucepans, frying pans. So she'd made it that way. No-one else knew but when she'd cooked she'd secretly always had her cups, bowls, plates, knives, forks, spoons, saucepans and frying pans hidden in a different cupboard from everyone else's. It meant that she had to ban everyone from her kitchen when she was cooking so they wouldn't notice, but they weren't surprised by anything anymore. And no-one knew, a happy little secret carried in the pit of her stomach, warm like the throbbing burns.

Win's pegs lived in the little metal box in the washing basket; the box that Alf had given her when they went to the pictures one day. It had chocolates in then, wrapped up in golden wrappers which was good as they glinted in the light from the screen so you could see how to open them. They were alright for Win, those ones in the wrappers, they hadn't touched the box at all. Tasted better than the rationing chocolate that came in bars and you never knew whose filthy hands had been on them. They'd taught them about germs in school, little buggers who's stick to anything that they could, lurking and festering and breeding until everything was covered in them and there was no choice but to wash them or throw them away. It wasn't a choice. No Alf, it wasn't a choice. It was a necessity. She sometimes wondered how other people carried on with their lives, knowing that there were germs on everything- a tea-cup, a hanky, even a bar of soap. Only the soap powder flakes for her now as they came in a box and you could close a box up quick sharp so nothing could get to them. And for her, just her she had bought some carbolic soap from a man at the market who managed to get it from the hospital a few miles away. So he had said. Still it was only tuppence and it made her feel safer.

To make sure she looked nice for the doctors her hair was set. Only June was able to set it for her. Salon girls were too busy flirting with the boys coming in for their short back and sides and drawing on their beauty spots to be able to do it properly. And they didn't have those blue barbers jars where they disinfected the combs after. Who'd want to have a brush used on them that had bits of other people's hairs in? Could get nits. No, but June could do it, after she'd washed her clean her hands the way Win wanted. Lather the soap in the palms until it's half cream, half foam. Then spread on the inside of the little and ring fingers, then ring and middle fingers, then middle and index fingers so that when you got to the biggest gap between the index fingers and thumbs you had plenty of soap to do it with and the other fingers were clean. Give them all a good rub, wring them once, twice, three times. Rinse them with the hot water (the tap had to be left running), and you were good to go. June still wore her wedding ring, and it did sometimes scrape but that was her own business. Win couldn't wear her wedding ring anymore, the hands were too scaly and the gold had made it itch until it bled. The scabs from the scalds were the worst on her hands, and Win'd picked and picked at them so they stung and stung in the soapy water so much they brought tears to her eyes. It wasn't that she'd have minded the pain of wearing it, but her hands had swollen so much it wouldn't fit past her knuckles. Alf didn't like it but Win needed to be able to do her washing and she couldn't do that with a ring that wouldn't slip on easily.

Win didn't wear finger waves any more, she was far too old for that. The doctor's had said it didn't matter what with the things that'd be going on up there but that wasn't the point, was it? She didn't know that they'd have a bit of it off and wash it all out, so she looked like an upside down Father Christmas' in a rain storm whose razor had slipped. Win's eyebrows had been plucked like a young girl, arched and filled in with pencil, sharpened and sharpened and sharpened again. And the lipstick, always the lipstick, no woman was a proper lady without it. She was sure the doctors would be impressed with her brown skirt suit with the peplum on the hem. It made her look like she had hips, hid her frame, a frame that had grown slimmer and slimmer quicker and quicker these past few months which is what made Alf take her to the doctor in the first place. Didn't want to go to that waiting room full of germs but she needed to be a good wife and she knew she wasn't being the way she wanted to be. Alf had made it clear she wasn't a good wife after Tony was born. So she went for him, seeing the germs crawling on the children as they played with paper aeroplanes whilst she breathed in through her Dettol soaked handkerchief held in kid leather gloved hands.  

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